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[UPDATE] I am a single (37F) and starting to deal with the fact that I have failed in life. I lost my job 5 months ago. Never been in a long term relationship, don't have kids and I live in a house that a family friends owns in a bad part of town so I don't pay rent. I feel horrible. I look at my life and wonder what will come of it. I have hope that things will turn around and I do everything possible to make that happen. I'm on dating apps, 3 months now, not met anyone who wants a serious relationship. Everyone I have talked to wants a casual sex relationship which is not want I want. I'm just here to vent. I sometimes think I wasted my time being a Christian and having high standards about the kind of man I wanted. I appear happy and positive to everyone, so I wanted to just come here and vent. I will keep trying tho, I will keep applying for jobs, I will keep trying to connect on dating apps. But I just feel as tho I have failed in life. Things could turn around. I hope they do.
In short, stay positive and upbeat. Some men will fall into this terrible mindset that they’re never going to be good enough for someone or they’re just ugly which isn’t true. Every single person on this earth brings something unique to the table and that’s what even makes dating possible, we’re all different. Know you’re not alone brother. Don’t rely on hoping she’ll message you as she probably won’t so you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. I broke up 4 months ago and feel the exact same as you, even sent a letter myself, to which I got no reply so now I’m torn too. The situation has become slightly less positive since Narcos actually caused an influx of clueless American tourists. That doesn’t mean it will be bad for you. Paisas are really welcoming to foreigners. You need to speak Spanish or learn it and show respect to the culture. My BF is unsure if he would like to continue dating. I (F22), and my bf (M24) have been in a relationship half a year. Recently, I tested positive for HSV2. My bf is unsure if he is willing to take the risk and continue dating me since he is negative. He loves me and would continue the relationship if it wasn't for my results. Fell for the first person I ever dated, sustained a long distance relationship through dating and engagement and for the first 5 years (ish) of marriage. (Military lifestyle, multiple deployments). My S/O and I never had a honeymoon during our honeymoon phase and I never felt like we were able to connect and build a solid foundation in the.
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Edit: Thank you sooo much for everyone who responded to this post. Both those who encouraged me that life would get better and not to give up (gave me sooo much inner strength, honestly thank you all!! ) and those that said I was a failure. I believe that sometimes it's good to get to rock bottom to know that you need to make a life change (Crazy, but as eternal optimist, I think it was important for me face that)
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So, I had been interviewing for jobs this whole time and applying aggresively on job boards. I did an interview some time back, and they just got back to me with a job offer, I got the Job!!!!! The best one I've ever had in terms of pay. I am sooo happy honestly! Overjoyed!!! I think I over sold myself tho, so I have a lot of proving to do when I start the job. I'll give it everything I have.
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Things turn around
Again, thanks 😘
